i swear, every time i see some idiot type that up, i have an uncontrollable desire to grab an iron hammer and smash her face in (yes, it's typically a girl).

it's ridiculous how some people just grab the word and says stupid crap like "society says that girls who sleep around are sluts." likewise, in the other spectrum, "society says that if you don't sleep around, you're a an outsider."

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Have you ever noticed that whenever the phrase, "society says/claims/states/believes/some other variant of it," the next part is pretty much always something that the author vehemently disagrees with?

Society is so damn big with people of every kind of school of thought and beliefs and expectations of how people should be, you can't just pick and choose one area of the spectrum and use it as the mouthpiece of EVERYONE.

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i was thinking to myself recently- what are the worst traits of each gender? first thing that pops into mind for females is annoying (annoying encompassing all traits irritating to man incl. overly clingy, emotional, doesn't shut up, etc.). First thing that popped into my head for males was being an absolute douchebag (i.e. heartless) but when I thought about it some more, i thought up of two more- irresponsibility and cowardliness. i would certainly agree that more and more guys are being irresponsible (doing stupid shit without thinking about consequences) but at the same time, i've always thought that being a coward was the worst trait known to man (man as in man not mankind).

..yeah i'd say it's cowardliness.

every once in a while whenever i'm incredibly bored (like right now- currently studying), i give myself random scenarios.

so i was imagining a genie (was watching aladdin in hebrew some time ago in attempts to see how much hebrew i understood) giving me a wish and i was thinking to myself what it would be like being able to change my appearance whenever i wanted to and however i wished. pretty much a human ditto minus the jello like consistence.


then i thought, yeah it would be pretty awesome at the beginning (making myself as hot as possible to attract the chicks)...but then i realized after a while i would hate it. at some point in time i would probably be extremely insecure, being suspicious whether if the woman i loved REALLY was interested in me because of my looks or because of my personality. furthermore, if the best thing about me was my appearance i would think that a lot of people wouldn't pay that much attention to the person underneath and that would suck. so not only i attract (mostly) superficial women (methinks the "good" women would be too intimidated by my looks or would get beaten down by the more aggressive women), i wouldnt know who exactly were my real friends or not. to add to that, im pretty sure a crapload of guys would be extremely jealous of how i looked and be giving me trouble all the time.

i might also end up as the biggest jackass in the world. assuming that everything came extraordinarily easy to me, i would underappreciate good things and i would end up disrespecting everyone since it would be easy to manipulate people (mostly women) into doing whatever i wanted them to do.


and if that was tl;dr, in short- if you're awesomely hot, chances are high that your personality will be absolute crap OR you'll be insecure about whether people REALLY like you.


...yeah.